and i%26#039;m not asking this so that i can change who i am (which is how most people answer questions like this :/) .. i%26#039;m just kinda curious as to what guys would say and how the idea of a perfect girl varies from guy to guy? so.. guys, what do you look for physically and emotionally in a girl? (and girls can say what they look for in guys too!) :)
鈾mmaBaby Adore|||i%26#039;m looking for smart girl|||My definition of the perfect woman:
First she has to meet my minimum criteria (my definition of a woman) and any woman who doesn%26#039;t fulfill this, there is no point in looking further:
Common Characteristics (things I expect every woman is capable of):
Must show personality/be herself comfortably, relaxed, cool, calm, confident and has consistent behaviour
Mature, sensible, mentally strong, emotionally intelligent
Non-smoker and social drinker
Culturally, racially, socially and generally open minded
Knowledgeable and sociable/a bit chatty
Sense of humour and fun to be around
Considerate and understanding
Modest and humble
is upbeat, independent
has a purpose in life
can exhort opinion
does not take life to seriously
Advanced/specific characteristics (the more challenging and rarer traits that are near impossible to find):
banter sexual foreplay and humour
spontaneous/wild at the right moments and right amount
Has some knowledge of some sexual techniques at disposal (2-3 techniques)
proactive and direct most of the time
Occasional dominance.
sleek, elegant and sophisticated
is creative
Complete turn-offs (things that instantly gets women rejected)
Bossy most of the time
Shyness
Try to get your attention by picking on you
Arrogance
Very drunk/high behaviour
Obsession to high extents
Irrational and inconsistent outburst or excitement over a short period of time (especially through a conversation)
Find it hard to control even the basic of all emotions
Tries to devalue you
manipulation - making the guy chase you would be considered one
worrying too much
immaturity
masochistic (or i think it%26#039;s how it%26#039;s spelt - it means you can only feel like a winner if you put someone else down lower than you)
shallowness
bitchy
expects guys to be psychics
She then has the following common interests and characteristics:
Must have interest in volleyball
70% hip to waist ratio (hourglass shape); symmetrical face with all features in the right proportions and positions; white average sized and shaped teeth; legs are of the right thickness; smooth soft skin (can be fair); dazzling and encapsulating eyes; smooth long hair (slight volume); seductive smile; hands not skinny but are soft and of a certain size; no glasses; 25-30 C cup breasts; no moles; shoulders flat; not muscular, skinny or fat; not too tall or too short (7%26quot;6 - 7%26quot;8). i.e. the perfect 10/10 look
Has taste in fashion
Open to the idea of 3-somes (we%26#039;re all thinking about it)
into salsa, tango, ballroom dancing, literature, philosophy
Has manners, Knows how to present herself (dress, body language, etc.)
Gentle, caring, supportive yet inviting, adventurous, willing to experiment on some degree
seductive, sexy and is wild and great in bed
Wants to travel the world
Not materialistic
A bit of a cosmopolitan/city woman but at the same time can spend some time in the country
Is passionate about what she does
multilingual
Offers unconditional love
Knows about gender differences
Cares somewhat about the environment, 3rd world countries, has social values, ethical and integral
Not a big fan of football or cars
Has that natural, subtle female pheremonic aroma
Is negotiable and can be reasoned with
Responsive
Like walks along the beach
Likes Italian, French, Japanese, American, British, Spanish, Indian, Jamaican food, but is open to others
Dislikes Chinese food
Voice is not too deep/manly but at the same time is not squeaky or high pitched. Prefer if she had a sexy English accent (not too important)
Artistic, likes a variety of music especially Classical.
Does volunteering occasionally
Is a professional but not business like
Is a redhead
Is genitally tight and not turned on too easily (guys like the challenge)
Can be pampered but willing to return the pampering, and occasionally go Dutch. Doesn%26#039;t always expects the guy to do everything
Likes walking down the beach, have candle-lit dinners under the moonlight, scavenger hunt for her gift, salts and candle lit baths, feed each other
Likes and would want children SOMEDAY
Wouldn%26#039;t mind marriage and definitely does not rush into it
Not a health fanatic but does sports and willing to have the odd treat once in a while but can discipline herself not to
Gets along with family, friends, colleagues, neighbours, etc.
Doesn%26#039;t get too worked up about growing old
Does not pay too much attention at looking good but does takes care of herself
Is trustworthy, faithful, doesn%26#039;t insult, unspoilt, grateful for most things, not naive or gullible
Can parent and talk to children properly; can also spend time with them in the future
Is willing to invest in the relationship and not drain everything out of it
Not weird, strictly religious (preferably atheist)
Doesn%26#039;t judge people by their looks but can see people for what they are
Hope this helps|||for me the perfect girl doesn%26#039;t have to be HAWT!!! but cute, fun, anime/manga fan, at least a C-cup, and sorta shy....my oh my, that%26#039;s puuuuur-fect...|||I you are gonna ask people for their idea of perfection dont get pissed at honest answers. People settle all the time, a lot of guys like big boobs, but it is not the top for choosing a partner, women like big things and settle plenty too. Also if it werent so important and available then why are there so many plastic surgeons. personally I dont like them over a c cup, but then again I also dont have a perfect woman in that sense, I think its the flaws that make people great. I think my perfect woman has the ability to look anyone in the eyes with an innocent smile, and that look says I can own you and rock your entire world, but I choose him, and I am his freak.|||Most men look for big boobs and nice butts. Not a difficult question. Most don%26#039;t really care about your mental state. If ya find one that does, more power to ya honey.|||big boobs and big butt but not have a big ego or thinks shes all that|||I like a girl who%26#039;s outgoing, not shy AT ALL, she likes to talk a lot, not too much, not the type who likes to get over excited and start to yell, but generally mostly a nice personality and outgoing.|||i like a girl who doesn%26#039;t start flirting with ANYBODY she meet ( what most of them do)
