What are your views on changing yourself for someone you like?

What are your views on like losing weight or changing your hair to get a boy or girls attention?What are your views on changing yourself for someone you like?you shouldn't do it. if the person you like only likes people for what they look like and doesn't see how gorgeous you are, that's their loss, NOT yours.
What are your views on changing yourself for someone you like?
dont do it
What are your views on changing yourself for someone you like?
Shallow individual with a herd mentality.



Fodder for advertising psychology.



The corporations of the world love it though ...
bad idea, change you for you. If your changing for someone else your going to end up resenting them if you dont get back what you desire.
Hair like a hair cut I guess would be understandable but losing weight? I wouldn't suggest loosing weight to impress someone. There are plenty of people out there that will like you the way you are even if it seems like this person is the one you want there will always be another.
I wouldn't do it! I met a guy once who was a goth and he tried to turn me that way too by texting me telling me to dress %26quot;dark%26quot; etc. But then once I turned up with a bubbly pink t shirt and a skirt and he was miffed. If you have to change yourself they are not getting to know they REAL you and a guy should like the way you look as you are! I can understand maybe losing a bit of weight to gain confidence but other than that I wouldn't change a thing
Dont!!!! just be ur self
don't do it, if they think you should go and change your appearance. that shouldn't matter. in fact, you shouldn't change who you are. but, to tell you, there are situations where a bit of tweaking helps a relationship that is ALREADY HAPPENING. i mean stuff like a guy putting a toilet seat down or a girl getting over her hate for football to the extent that she won't chew a guy out for whistling a tune from a game. don't change who you are, but be willing to work for a common ground on issues that are bothering you both.
Changing yourself? (this goes for every aspects - physical, personality, etc....)



If you are changing yourself just for the sake of approval and validation of someone you like, NO.



Don't force yourself to do something if you don't like to.

Don't force yourself to do something if it would be for the sake of someone's approval or validation.

That is one of the essential meanings of %26quot;BE YOURSELF%26quot;



Remember:



Act through your own intentions. BE YOURSELF. =)





If you want to change yourself because YOU LIKE IT, then Hell Yeah! Change yourself, as long as you are HAVING FUN and HAPPY with it. You control your life. It's your decision.



Trigger69
physical isn't terrible but never change your personality.

don't change too much though he should love you not the girl you made for him.

luvsxxx

ElectroRaveGirl
simply put, I'd rather someone like me for who I really am and not some person I pretend to be.
changin your hairstyle or losing weight is smthg tat u shd do only for ur sake n if u like it.not 4 others.



neva change urself 4 sum1 else (if u have self respect da).b da way u r.ur gf must accept u for wat u r n.have sum attitude dude(doesnt mean like showoff).



actin like smthg u r not is just da biggest u cud ever do.so thnk for urself.
i dont mind changing hair, getting new clothes, getting a hair cut or even losing weight...after all these are confidence boosters but dont change your personality for someone...if someone thinks that they would only date an athlete..dont try to become like one by faking it when u are really a poet! they will see through it and they will not respect you for deceiving them....!!! its the inside that matters in the long run..
I would NEVER change anything about myself for someone I liked.

If you do that then that means they don't like the 'real' you. Just the made up you that you have created for them.
Not likely