I'm 15 and I semi-came out a month or two ago. I realized I was 7, so I presume I was born with this orientation. I didn't know what sex was when I was seven, nor did I know what homosexuality was. I just got a strange tingly feeling for the same sex, or someone handsome of the same sex. It's like my hormones were working at a very discrete level, but still there giving me a slight feeling towards my orientation.
I've never thought a female was sexually attractive in my life, and I will never find a female sexually attractive in my life. I'll bet on that. I've tried to change myself for three years (yr 10 - 13), but there's no changing me. My orientation is set in stone in the brain.
Some people realize sooner than others, some people later. It depends on how your hormones work. Regardless, you have no choice in your orientation. You do, however, have the choice to give into your attractions, BUT, if it's harmless mutual love, what's wrong with that? Bisexuals are the only ones who can pick and choose the gender they're going to be with, BUT they will always feel a sexual attraction for both sexes.
Hope you enjoyed my lesson, hahaha. This is all first hand stuff I have experienced. :-)Christians, will you read my experience with homosexuality?And Christians are the only Homophobes in the world, right?Christians, will you read my experience with homosexuality?Homosexuality is not a choice. God loves all His creation, including homosexuals.Christians, will you read my experience with homosexuality?Why is it that Christians define all homophobe's in the world? I have an atheist %26quot;friend%26quot; who says that homosexuality is unnatural, disgusting and that it is a %26quot;choice%26quot;.WOW...Sam for 15 that was some very intelligent, well thought-out, insightful, and infomative stuff. Thankyou for sharing this. I have learned something here. More people should come forward like this and share their life realizations. The world might become less bigoted from it.
...once again Sam....THANKSI don't get why everyone directs this at Christians. Every single person I grew up knowing is a Christian %26amp; I have never met anyone like the way the LGBT people here describe them. (bigoted, judgmental, homophobic, hateful)
It doesn't help the cause to fight the supposed assumptions/generalizations people make about homosexuality by making ones of your own.What was your question? If it was about same sex love or attraction no there is nothing wrong with it.I'm bisexual but I don't pick and choose who I fall in love with even if I love both genders just because I'm bi doesn't mean I have it easy christians don't except us either .
Your right your sexual orientation is set in stone .