A question for the girls can you help here?

Hey I'm a guy and need some help with this girl I just don't get her



Well thing is for 2-3 years she had a crush on me and I had one on her but we rarely talked (I was really shy and she was too). She never came up to me or talked to me or anything. I found out she had a crush on me via her friends. Now I finally started talking to her we like the same music and stuff. At first she seemed really interested and carried the conversation on. Still now it seems like she avoids me. I didn't do anything to her but i admit I kinda changed this year (personality).

Lately I found out she was with someone when I heard this I was shocked I went up and and asked if she was dating that person she said no.

Later I find them holding hands and and the guy with his arm around her shoulder. I tried to ignore it but I can't, my grades are slipping and at a really bad time too.

Also my really good friend of mine talked to them and later told me to keep away or else he'll do %26quot;something%26quot; to me. i asked why and he said he doesn't have to tell me.

Also I found out several other of her friends liked me a few years back and I waited for them to stop liking me %26quot;so I could move in on her%26quot; (kinda). I mean I really care for her so I don't want to ruin any friendships.

Also some other people told me that they like me but I couldn't go after them while the girl liked was in my mind.

One last thing I asked the guy I saw her with if they were dating he said %26quot;WTF why should I say anything?%26quot;

So can you girls help here and yes this stuff happened to me. Its strange all these girls like me but I want her and I can't forget her....A question for the girls can you help here?Dude, just man up and smash her!
A question for the girls can you help here?
Dude you lost your shot.... With all of them
A question for the girls can you help here?
How old are you? This could not happen anywhere besides like, elementary school. Um chances are you misread the signals and she didn't like you or she moved on. Either way it sounds liek your pretty young so go out with another girl or don't- it donesn't matter. If you and this girl are really compatable maybe you'll date in high school or something.

Best of luck.
awww thats so sad!!!!! :.(

well its obvious shes with that guy (but i am sure you already know that) simple thing is that you need to get over her or plot to get her back. until then its heart break city pal.

chances are she liked you then when she found someone new didn't need you anymore, thing is until she stop liking him or dating him she will ignore you. you need to either find some dirt on him or something gross, terrible, scaring about him or give up because if you really want her you have to make her hate this guy.

sorry i had to put it this way but oh well.

:.(
you should try to make her good girl you should try to get her back.and you should try to understand her that it is not good.i hoe she will understand.